Early Rising Habit

Cultivate the habit of early rising, it is unwise to keep the head long at the level of the feet.


-Henry David Thoreau


Sometimes we neglect schedules and task because we spent so much time in laying down in our beds, we follow the wants of our body and not the dictates of the head. But we must put in mind that to be able to accomplished and finished much task in a single day, we must develop the habit of rising early, and push ourselves to rise early. If we can maintain the habit of early rising, i'm sure that more problems to be solved, more task to be accomplished, and better life will be ahead of us.

Human Relations

Good human relations is nothing more than treating the other fellow as if it were his last day on earth, not yours!


-Cylvia A. Sorkin


There are times that we can only feel the love to a person when they are sick and dying, that we can only see their value when they're gone. We must see more importance in a person compare to things, sometimes if a person commit mistakes like losing a certain thing or accidentally destroyed matters, we treat them like less important than the things or matter they lost or destroyed. We must put in mind that human relation can't replace by the value of matters, that our fellows are more important than things. We will not live and get along with people for long, so we share good moments and encounter with them, so that we will left a lasting happy memories with our love ones and fellow.

Mother that makes a home worthwhile

Though a mother stays home and keeps her house clean, it is still not a home unless she creates the right spirit in the house. It is the atmosphere created primarily  by the mother that makes a home worthwhile.


-Bookhoff


We always expect mothers as housekeeper, the one who is in charge in home management, but there are times that they can't performed their usual task, because they need to help the father in providing the needs. The father's salary this days is not sufficient to purchase the needs of the family, that mother and other able family members must help to obtain the needs of the family. Sometimes the mother don't have time and neglect her duty as housekeeper, but maintaining the household management is not the prime requirement in having a good family. It is maintaining the good atmosphere of family relation that is essential and must. Giving and having time to every family member is the most important thing, it is not the things we give that make them complete, but the warm family relation that grows is the most important and will make it complete.

Make your life a mission

"Make your life a mission --- not an intermission."

-- Arnold Glasgow



We live and exist with purpose, the time that we spent will be futile if we'll not use it for more important and profitable cause. Don't use more time for relaxation and idleness, the time we spent will not come again, make every time, energy, and effort count. Let us serve as pattern and inspiration for good cause.  

The World can be Big or Small

It's a Big world to those who are seeking, but it is too Small to those who are hiding.


-David Danio Jr.


It is so hard to find someone who is hiding, but more difficult for someone to hide. When someone commit mistake or don't want to be found, it is very difficult to find safe place where you can live conveniently, you're always restless staring around because there might be someone hunting you, life is so difficult for the one who is hiding, that even though it is a big world, you will feel insecurities because sometimes you're not aware if what will happen next. 
To someone who is looking around and hunting, it is also very difficult and tiresome, you will encounter and experience the feeling like finding a needle in a big dump of hay. But what a satisfying and inexpressible feeling when you have found something that you want to be found, joy and excitement. But in every effort of hiding and finding, there are good and bad effects of it, and the nice thing is you've achieved the mission. 

If you have time to whine and complain, then you have the time to do something.

"If you have time to whine and complain about something then you have the time to do something about it."

-- Anthony J. D'Angelo




There are very few people who gladly accepts responsibility, it is often that resistant is the answer when you give task and assignment to anybody. But after the time of having it without acceptance, you will soon realize that it is not a hard work and responsibility. What is hard is our inability to accept and welcome responsibility. If we develop the attitude to welcome task no matter how hard it is, it is easier for us to find opportunity and job that would benefit us. Develop that positive attitude, that instead of resistance, it is acceptance of whatever things that may possibly come and arrive.

The greatest weapon against stress

"The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another."

-- William James


Our inability to think well and produce quality outputs will lead to distress, because we are not satisfied and we lost confident to ourselves. Let us give ourselves a second chance, do not consider yourself a loser when you commit error or your output does not arrive to what you desires. Committing mistakes are a part of learning and improvement, you will not prove or find it out unless you discover it by mistakes. So give consolation to ourselves as a reward, forgive ourself and learn to do it better for the next time.  

Only in losing himself does he find himself

"A man who has never lost himself in a cause bigger than himself has missed one of life's mountaintop experiences. Only in losing himself does he find himself. Only then does he discover all the latent strengths he never knew he had and which otherwise would have remained dormant."

-- Richard Nixon


There are easy and hard experiences that we encounter. It is often that we don't select task and assignment that  requires much effort and time, because we are afraid to commit mistake and exert much effort. But we must develop the courage and attitude to accept challenges in life. Our development must be from bottom to top and not the opposite, we must expose ourself to different test that requires persistence and endurance. We will not discover and find out our strengths if we will not be exposed ourselves to different test and challenges, let us not be afraid to face big and greater challenges that arrives, instead, we must always be glad and consider those challenges as opportunity that arrives.  

We fall in Love by Chance

Those who were involved in relationship are wondering why they are in that kind of relation and status. But I would like to make it clear that no one could do something for you if you would not accept and approved it. There are times that we blame other people for what had happened to us in our love affair or relationship, but one thing that I would like to make it clear is that "we fall in love by chance, and stay in love by choice."

Never grows old

"Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old."

-- Franz Kafka



Making and seeing anything beautifully is a very rare ability of human, but developing such ability will benefit a person by not affecting much his physical characteristics and appearance. Staying young by having exercise and taking nutritious food is hard and expensive to maintained, but keeping a good disposition and picture in different things make us always young and feel better in an inexpensive way.

All of us do not have equal talent

"All of us do not have equal talent, but all of us should have
an equal opportunity to develop our talent."

-- John F. Kennedy



We are ashame and afraid to perform and achieve because we compare ourselves to others, we neglect and forget that we have different talent and capacity to do a certain task, there are some who perform fast with 70-80 percent completion, but there are slow achiever that do it in a 90-100 percent performance. Any performance is good as long as you are performing and using your available talent, we don't have equal talent and capacity, it signifies the uniqueness of every individual. But the nice thing is, everybody has the chance of grabbing that equal opportunity, the only difference is our persistent and endurance to proceed and achieve something. The more aggressive and motivated an individual is, the more opportunity is waiting for to be accomplished, don't be ashame, come out and show what you can do. Never mind if someone is better than you, trying to accomplish something from your own initiative will show that you're better and different from the rest who claim to be better but do not accomplished anything.

There is no such thing as 'on the way out'.

"There is no such thing as 'on the way out' as long as you are
still doing something interesting and good; you're in the
business because you're breathing."

-- Louis Armstrong


It is very hard to be consistent and persistent in the things that we want to do, there are times that we loss interest in pursuing something that we have started, there are times that we want to give up because of circumstances that comes along the way, sometimes we encountered challenges and trials that gives depression and discouragement that we almost give up in the process. But be careful in our decision, especially if we have decided to quit, think of those efforts and times that we invested and spent to achieve, acquire, or started those things. It is not an easy task to start and establish, consider factors and resources, especially if you're giving the source of your bread and butter, think of the people who are depending on you, sometimes we only consider ourself, look around and think wisely before giving up. Success is a developing continuous process.

Think before you move out from where you are,

"There is no such thing as 'on the way out' as long as you are
still doing something interesting and good; you're in the
business because you're breathing."

-- Louis Armstrong


It is very hard to be consistent and persistent in the things that we want to do, there are times that we loss interest in pursuing something that we have started, there are times that we want to give up because of circumstances that comes along the way, sometimes we encountered challenges and trials that gives depression and discouragement that we almost give up in the process. But be careful in our decision, especially if we have decided to quit, think of those efforts and times that we invested and spent to achieve, acquire, or started those things. It is not an easy task to start and establish, consider factors and resources, especially if you're giving the source of your bread and butter, think of the people who are depending on you, sometimes we only consider ourself, look around and think wisely before giving up. Success is a developing continuous process.
The biggest room in this world is room for improvement, but be sure to go upward and not downward curve of improvement.

Think of life as a terminal illness..

"Think of life as a terminal illness, because, if you do, you
will live it with joy and passion, as it ought to be lived."

-- Anna Quindlen



Imagine that life is so short, that there is no time for play and leisure. That all you have to do is to spend the remaining time of your life in most profitable matter that you think are more beneficial. If you will do that, I'm sure that you'll have no regret in having the short time that you spent here on earth. Spend more time relating and helping people, and not more on building things that will be soon destroyed, give more value to our fellow. Spend quality to our love ones, because life here on earth is not eternal.