The true measure of a man is how he treats someone

"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do
him absolutely no good."

-- Samuel Johnson



The ability to hold one self and to deny one's challenge of conflict is the absolute measure of a consistent, principled, and true man. It is not the ability to destroy and conquer other, but it is how you control yourself in a situation differently  having it in a calm and peaceful manner that will show your manhood.