The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own

"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide
your problems are your own. You don't blame them on your
mother, the ecology, or the President. You realize that you
control your own destiny."

-- Albert Ellis



Our practice was to point a culprit every time that there are problems or mistakes, it is very seldom that we have the guts to accept and recognize that the problem was belong to us or came from us. We always point our finger to others and blame them, not noticing that several fingers of yours was pointing on yourself. But kidding aside, do we notice that while we point other, cowardliness was develop in ourselves. It is because we are afraid to face and accept the reality of ourself, that our instant practice was to point other every time that there are mistakes. If we are afraid to accept mistakes, then process of development and improvement is not with us.