The World can be Big or Small

It's a Big world to those who are seeking, but it is too Small to those who are hiding.


-David Danio Jr.


It is so hard to find someone who is hiding, but more difficult for someone to hide. When someone commit mistake or don't want to be found, it is very difficult to find safe place where you can live conveniently, you're always restless staring around because there might be someone hunting you, life is so difficult for the one who is hiding, that even though it is a big world, you will feel insecurities because sometimes you're not aware if what will happen next. 
To someone who is looking around and hunting, it is also very difficult and tiresome, you will encounter and experience the feeling like finding a needle in a big dump of hay. But what a satisfying and inexpressible feeling when you have found something that you want to be found, joy and excitement. But in every effort of hiding and finding, there are good and bad effects of it, and the nice thing is you've achieved the mission. 

If you have time to whine and complain, then you have the time to do something.

"If you have time to whine and complain about something then you have the time to do something about it."

-- Anthony J. D'Angelo




There are very few people who gladly accepts responsibility, it is often that resistant is the answer when you give task and assignment to anybody. But after the time of having it without acceptance, you will soon realize that it is not a hard work and responsibility. What is hard is our inability to accept and welcome responsibility. If we develop the attitude to welcome task no matter how hard it is, it is easier for us to find opportunity and job that would benefit us. Develop that positive attitude, that instead of resistance, it is acceptance of whatever things that may possibly come and arrive.

The greatest weapon against stress

"The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another."

-- William James


Our inability to think well and produce quality outputs will lead to distress, because we are not satisfied and we lost confident to ourselves. Let us give ourselves a second chance, do not consider yourself a loser when you commit error or your output does not arrive to what you desires. Committing mistakes are a part of learning and improvement, you will not prove or find it out unless you discover it by mistakes. So give consolation to ourselves as a reward, forgive ourself and learn to do it better for the next time.  

Only in losing himself does he find himself

"A man who has never lost himself in a cause bigger than himself has missed one of life's mountaintop experiences. Only in losing himself does he find himself. Only then does he discover all the latent strengths he never knew he had and which otherwise would have remained dormant."

-- Richard Nixon


There are easy and hard experiences that we encounter. It is often that we don't select task and assignment that  requires much effort and time, because we are afraid to commit mistake and exert much effort. But we must develop the courage and attitude to accept challenges in life. Our development must be from bottom to top and not the opposite, we must expose ourself to different test that requires persistence and endurance. We will not discover and find out our strengths if we will not be exposed ourselves to different test and challenges, let us not be afraid to face big and greater challenges that arrives, instead, we must always be glad and consider those challenges as opportunity that arrives.  

We fall in Love by Chance

Those who were involved in relationship are wondering why they are in that kind of relation and status. But I would like to make it clear that no one could do something for you if you would not accept and approved it. There are times that we blame other people for what had happened to us in our love affair or relationship, but one thing that I would like to make it clear is that "we fall in love by chance, and stay in love by choice."

Never grows old

"Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old."

-- Franz Kafka



Making and seeing anything beautifully is a very rare ability of human, but developing such ability will benefit a person by not affecting much his physical characteristics and appearance. Staying young by having exercise and taking nutritious food is hard and expensive to maintained, but keeping a good disposition and picture in different things make us always young and feel better in an inexpensive way.

All of us do not have equal talent

"All of us do not have equal talent, but all of us should have
an equal opportunity to develop our talent."

-- John F. Kennedy



We are ashame and afraid to perform and achieve because we compare ourselves to others, we neglect and forget that we have different talent and capacity to do a certain task, there are some who perform fast with 70-80 percent completion, but there are slow achiever that do it in a 90-100 percent performance. Any performance is good as long as you are performing and using your available talent, we don't have equal talent and capacity, it signifies the uniqueness of every individual. But the nice thing is, everybody has the chance of grabbing that equal opportunity, the only difference is our persistent and endurance to proceed and achieve something. The more aggressive and motivated an individual is, the more opportunity is waiting for to be accomplished, don't be ashame, come out and show what you can do. Never mind if someone is better than you, trying to accomplish something from your own initiative will show that you're better and different from the rest who claim to be better but do not accomplished anything.

There is no such thing as 'on the way out'.

"There is no such thing as 'on the way out' as long as you are
still doing something interesting and good; you're in the
business because you're breathing."

-- Louis Armstrong


It is very hard to be consistent and persistent in the things that we want to do, there are times that we loss interest in pursuing something that we have started, there are times that we want to give up because of circumstances that comes along the way, sometimes we encountered challenges and trials that gives depression and discouragement that we almost give up in the process. But be careful in our decision, especially if we have decided to quit, think of those efforts and times that we invested and spent to achieve, acquire, or started those things. It is not an easy task to start and establish, consider factors and resources, especially if you're giving the source of your bread and butter, think of the people who are depending on you, sometimes we only consider ourself, look around and think wisely before giving up. Success is a developing continuous process.