Be patient and wait for them to self-destruct

"There will be a time when loud-mouthed, incompetent people
seem to be getting the best of you. When that happens, you
only have to be patient and wait for them to self-destruct. It
never fails."

-- Richard Rybolt


Life has ups and down, the worst may come that it seems they will consume us. People around us that in the past days are good, then eventually influenced to become bad, that they can sacrifice your good relation for some reason. When worst circumstances in a relation happen, don't forget to have patience, don't let other destroy your integrity. It takes long time to build a name, but only seconds to destroy it. Let them destroy themselves.

Developing interest to things

"The Eskimos had fifty-two names for snow because it was
important to them: there ought to be as many for love."

-- Margaret Atwood


When you have something important in possession, you will use lots of words to describe it to give good impression and image to something valuable. Much more staying in position and never leave it.

Failure is not reaching your goal

"Failure is not reaching your goal, but in having no goal to
reach."

-- Benjamin Mays

 Failure may happen if you lost focus and stop pursuing, then you will also fail achieving your goal.

Be led by your dreams

"Don't be pushed by your problems. Be led by your dreams."

-- Anonymous



When we start and pursue a dream, it is often that we encountered problems that will put us down. Because we don't include problems in our plans, so that is why we arrive with much burden in achieving our dream. But if we only treat and see problems as skeleton to put more strength to our goal in achieving our dream, then having problems in achieving our dreams is just normal. Do not put more focus on problems, instead, live with your dreams in having those problems. 

True friends are a sure refuge

"In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a
sure refuge. The young they keep out of mischief; to the old
they are a comfort and aid in their weakness, and those in the
prime of life they incite to noble deeds."

-- Aristotle



It's true that you will find out if who are your true and real friends during difficult times and hour of troubles. Some will ignore you, but there are also others who will lift you up during your down moments. It is also during difficult times that you will discover if who among your friends are matured and ready enough to face difficult situation with you, and it is also sad to find out that some of your most treasured friend are the one who will deny you in your most down moments.
But that is life, take it.

Leave on the world a mark that will tell you exist

"A youth becomes a man when the marks he wants to leave on the
world have nothing to do with tires."

-- Unknown



The measure for being a man is the ability to make and leave something that could benefit and help others. Some are man in their words, in their appearance, and in their act. But the real man is the one that can create his words into action and transform it into reality.

Having the spirit to persist

"The last three or four reps is what makes the muscle grow.
This area of pain divides the champion from someone else who
is not a champion. That's what most people lack, having the
guts to go on and just say they'll go through the pain no
matter what happens."

-- Arnold Schwarzenegger


Bits for Moving up..

It is easy and exciting to start anything you want to establish, but when we get to the tough point, that we are tired of pursuing, it seems like what we have started is impossible to achieved. But wait, don't quit because what you think that is hard and tough is almost done, it will only need little effort to finish and accomplish, all you need to have now is the spirit to continue whatever it takes. What you need to win is the spirit that is ready to face anything.

Education is a wonderful thing

"Education is a wonderful thing. If you couldn't sign your
name you'd have to pay cash."

-- Rita Mae Brown


They've said that education enables man to live without money, and on the opposite, money enables man to survive without education. It clearly identifies that education is more essential than anything that cash can buy.